An army is not just for protection. An army can be used for growth purposes. Most couples are not aware of this single true fact but every marriage has an army. It can be a good army where strength in number is demonstrated beautifully. Or it can be a ticking time bomb waiting to give your marriage a Coup D’état.
Some couples have the wrong soldiers in their army.
The single or unhappily flirtatious friend/co-worker.
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The toxic couple.
The unhappy never been married.
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The bitter divorced friend
The angry separated friend.
If you have the above individuals giving you advice for marriage, you are asking for trouble. Give them discharge paper today.
Who can you surround with that can add advice and encouragement to your marriage?
The amazing marriage soldier has 5 qualities
1. Committed to the success of your marriage – This is an individual who value marriage and is committed to see you win as couple and as an individual. This individual also believes in the dreams and goals you and your spouse have. This individual is willing to encourage you to move from goals to reality.
2. Honest with you - This individual loves you and your spouse enough to tell you the truth. This individual also challenges you lovingly.
3. Teacher - This individual is patient enough with you and your spouse.
4. Learner – Willing to learn you as a couple and individual. Consequently, when you get advice is not a cookie cutter. This individual is humble to say I do not know how to help you let me get you some help. This individual is willing to learn from you
5. Role model – This individual not only preach to you, but this individual is also practicing what he or she is teaching.
If you don’t have the right army, start drafting one today. Your marriage is too important to have the wrong soldiers at your side.
Questions: Who do you spend most time with? Do the people you have around you had quality to your marriage?
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