Nor Should

“But many of us very literally have not been able to see older loved ones in years. The most vulnerable still remain at a distance.”

The truth hurts, I thought, as I read the quote from an article in the NYT.

Occasionally, and I try not to dwell on the cruel reality often, I fall into the pit of depression counting the years since our family was together.

And, as like most mortals, I believed it was just my loved ones that are so far flung.

The article went on to state how important it is to welcome others back into this still fragile society.

Yet, it is not quite so simple, The years of mandated isolation have stolen a time when many elders were still capable of travel,

We relinquished the ability to fly cross country with ease, and yes, enjoy a few perks, to visit far flung family members.

It was not nearly as painful at that point of life to admit adult children and grandchildren had demanding roles in life. We understood why they preferred we visit them.

Before the unanticipated arrival of Covid, we could and did. It was always another welcome adventure to include in our declining social calendar,

Frankly, I would not be as comfortable today. The masks have been removed, but the fear of contagion will linger for an unknown period of time. My physical abilities have diminished, and reluctantly, I must admit that truth.

And when in time to come, an analysis of the Covid impact is discussed, I wonder if anyone will remember, the division of families

FaceTime, Zoom, are impressive, but nothing will replace the moments of life we have lost with those we love.

Nor should it!