Take the time to talk through the situation & find a solution that is agreeable to both of you. As your children age, this will become more important.
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Assertiveness can be very difficult at times, but in all relationships the ability to communicate assertively lowers the likelihood of misunderstandings.
Taking some time to cool off and gather your thoughts can be the greatest thing you can do to save your relationship with your children.
Being willing to give a little by negotiating sometimes can have a tremendous impact on your relationship with your children.
It is extremely important for our children to feel confident that we are listening to them and understanding what they are trying to say.