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We Are Too Concerned with Results
We are so concerned with results, with the fruit of our labor. We tend to overlook the fact that the results are usually out of our hands.

Hal Green, Ph.D., is a former professor, pastor, counselor and columnist. He has deep faith in God and humanity, and is a long-term optimist. He believes that all will be well in the end, and that we will learn and grow from adversity. Hal seeks to inspire, assist, and guide us in our daily life.
His education includes a Ph.D. in World Religions from Northwestern University, a M.Div. in Bible and Theology from Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary, a M.A. in Psychology from Drake University, and a B.A. in Philosophy, also from Drake University.
We are so concerned with results, with the fruit of our labor. We tend to overlook the fact that the results are usually out of our hands.

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