Memorial services set for McLean resident Charles Proctor

Charles Proctor, a McLean resident for 30 years and a pillar of the Dranesville Republicans, died on July 9 at Virginia Hospital Center. He was 68 and had cancer.

Well-known and loved by many in the McLean community, Proctor had more than his share of heartache toward the end of his life. His wife, Roxanna Lee Kendrick, died in 2003 of cancer. They were married for 33 years.

His daughter, Ashley Victoria Proctor, 38, who had worked for former U.S.Rep. Tom Davis, R-Va., died of cancer last year. Proctor devoted himself to her care, and moved her into his home toward
the end of her life.

"Towards the end of Victoria's life, Charles devoted full time to her care, including moving her into his home," said Chairman of the 10th Congressional District Republican Committee Howie Lind, in a note concerning Proctor's passing. "All the time, Charles was battling his own prostate cancer as well, compounded with escalating heart issues.  Finally, a few days ago, Charles was admitted to Virginia Hospital Center - where he served as a chaplain through the National Presbyterian Church in Washington D.C., his home church.  Many of us were able to go by and talk to him, and he was actually upbeat, and still had stories to tell!"

Proctor touched many people in our community with his spirit, dedication and giving to others.

"He will definitely be missed by this community. He was a gentle, kind spirit," said Sherry Reynolds of McLean.

Virginia Del. Barbara Comstock described Proctor as "a very generous person (with) a great sense of humor." . . ."There was a great peace and serenity about him."

Proctor, a successful executive in the financial industry, graduated from Columbia University, served in the Air Force for four years, and was a deacon and active member of the National Presbyterian Church in Washington, D.C. He’s lived in the Potomac Hills neighborhood since 1981.

He was very active in Republican politics in Northern Virginia, too. Rob Jackson, president of the McLean Citizens Association and another friend, described him this way: “Charles was retired and active in Republican politics. But unlike many politicos today, he never let emotions take control."

Jackson went on to say: “Charles never attacked individuals, but rather, focused on issues. He established friendships that spanned the political spectrum”

Memorial services for Proctor will be held Saturday, Aug. 13, at 11 am at the National Presbyterian Church, 4101 Nebraska Ave., NW, Washington, DC.

He leaves no immediate survivors.

Correction: McLean Patch misidentified Howie Lind in the original story. The identification is now correct. We apologize to Mr. Lind and to our readers.